My husband and I had an interesting discussion the other day. I hold that most women can envision having a lesbian relationship while most men cannot envision having a gay relationship. He agrees that there is no man that he finds attractive in a sexual way, while I do find many women sexually attractive. Just so you know, my husband is very enlightened about this; he's not anti gay in the least he just says that he personally wouldn't be interested in a sexual relationship with a man. I just say I wouldn't kick Meg Ryan out of bed.